So one day mom tells me that she’s planning a bridal shower for me, I told her “sure mom, that would be great” but in my head I knew there was a 50-50 chance of it pushing through. Not that I doubted mom’s party planning skills nor did I question her creativity, it was just that she’s literally one of the busiest people that I know. If she’s not working in the hospital, you’ll find her working at home, surely she wouldn’t be able to find time to do this. And another thing, she wanted to go all out on DIY-ing this party without asking for my help. How the heck was she going to do that?
“Give me a date when you’re free, you don’t need to worry about anything. We’ll plan this.”
I thought she wasn’t serious until she brought these DIY printed-out invitations home. That was the only time she let me help…wrapping the invitations with doilies and burlap strings (very rustic vintage) before she handed them out.
Mom had one of her co-workers (who btw also was crazy about DIY) come up with the invitation print-outs
And on the day of the actual shower, this table at the entrance blew me away.
There it was… mom’s mirrored vanity tray that we bought from one of the past estate sales, Vynna’s assorted glass perfume bottles, the vintage off-white gloves that I bought from the lady next-door in the old neighborhood we were living in, a photo of me and marco (mom made sure to buy vintage frames for that), faux pearls, a cream colored candle inside a bird cage, a lace fan, Mae’s DIY guestbook in pink/gold/ pearls, a DIY cake towel made by one of mom’s friends (its at the far corner—yes, that thing was made out of towels) and just a hodge page of trinkets and treasures.
Walked in the room and saw my thrifted vintage wedding dress on a mannequin.
The homemade mocha cake Tita Mymar made. Isn’t it lovely?
Mini Cupcakes. :)
My sister’s home made oreo cake pops—Thanks Pauline!
Loved the wonderful flower arrangement made by a lady from church.
Dessert/ Punch table setting.
And they also prepared a slide show presentation for me ℅ the Sandils.
They were showing some embarassing pictures of me growing up, How delightful (not, haha)
Practice for the wedding day— I also had cake slicing during my bridal shower.
…and of course they also had a Toilet Paper Wedding Dress Contest. The models from each group: Tita Mymar, Angelie and Tita Connie.
Opening of gifts: L-I-N-G-E-R-I-E….lost count.
This is a tad bit too late but I want to thank everyone who made it to the bridal shower and also thank you for all the presents, the cards, the gift cards, cash, stuff from the wedding registry, inspirational books on marriage, the lovely rosary and most importantly words of advice as I start a new chapter in my life. Mom was right, each and everyone of you has been an important part of my life, true women of wisdom whom I won’t hesitate to run to in times of need.
Here’s a run-down of the people who made it to the bridal shower:
Tita Flora, our closest family friend/ mom’s second mom here in Houston.
My boss and my second mom at work.
CFC-FFL Titas with Mae, all of them are my second-moms in the community.
Mom’s friends and co-workers.
The Singsons, the first ever family who housed us in Houston.
Mommy Norma and Ate Jen, one of our very few relatives here in Houston. They just moved in a couple of days ago.
The infamous Tita Mymar, cake extraordianire.
The Ladies of the Pinoy Community of Sienna Anderson Springs, our closest friends in the neighborhood and the most down-to-earth bunch I know.
with the soon-to-be Mr. and Mrs. Costales (they’re also getting married this year!). Thanks so much for hosting, Mae!
With the youngest girls in the family—Ate loves you!!!
And of course my dearest mom, the brains behind the bridal shower.
Mom, you’ve really outdone yourself! I know you’ve been silently stressing out on the preparations for this bridal shower and for a while I did feel kind of helpless not being able to pitch-in with the planning or the execution of this whole thing. I’m so used to us tag-teaming with you, doing chores, running house errands, telling the kids off but you know what with the help of our family, close friends and neighbors the whole thing just turned out quite perfect. We really are so blessed and loved. I want to thank you for going out of your way to make me feel appreciated and for making sure that my last few days in Houston were memorable. And in turn I too appreciate you for sacrificing your time and effort just to make this send-off a blast. You really would do anything for us, mom. Thank you and I love you so much!