Bump Style: 24 Weeks

This little bump, my little Igby, is officially at his 6 month mark. I can’t believe we’re looking at 3 more months to go. Due to our birthday month and a whole lot of cake eating  last September I wasn’t too happy with my weight during the last check up although the OB assured me that my weight gain isn’t really drastic, I guess it’s still nothing compared to the 60 lbs. I gained during my pregnancy with Cassie I pray to God that it doesn’t go there. I should be thankful that everything’s looking good for my little one; he’s doing so well, everything’s normal, he’s healthy and he’s kicking a lot which makes me think we have another football (soccer) player in the making, it’s a Mendezona thing. Haha.

Today, I found maternity jeans on clearance at Walmart from $20 to $10 at size Small 4/6. Yes, I buy clothes from Walmart. I’m not necessarily brand conscious, if it’s cheap, comfy and it looks decent then I’ll probably go for it which was the case of this pair of jeans. I haven’t even heard of this brand until today but it served its purpose and I actually love it, the rest of my outfit comes from my regular closet.

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(BEANIE: gray knitted; Forever 21/ EARRINGS: Emeral green tassel; Amazon/ NECKLACE: Minted Jewelry/ DRESS: Black silk babydoll dress; Forever 21/ SWEATER: Grazy Aztec Blanket Sweater; Charlotte Russe/ JEANS: skinny maternity; Great Expectations/ SHOES: Black pointed flats; Forever 21)

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~Rhea

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Bump Style: 22 Weeks

I’ve finally accepted that I’ll never be one of those “skinny pregnant” ladies, you know those women who look like they just swallowed a watermelon whole but the rest of their body parts remain the same. With me, it’s always the arms and the legs that go first, and then my face gets chubbier and then my bump automatically looks like I’m carrying twins, I guess that’s just how it is for me every time I’m pregnant.

For this ensemble, I’m lucky enough to be wearing my regular clothes all in size Small, except for the leggings. There’s no way I’d fit into my old bottoms with that bump on the loose and I’m a bit hesitant to buy more maternity clothes but then again we are planning to have more than 2 kids so maybe it would be a good investment to purchase a few more especially jeans. But to those who think that’s an unnecessary expense then by all means the first step is to go through your closet and see what you already have. For fall, oversized sweaters, cardigans and maxi dresses can easily transition to your go-to maternity uniform, it’s comfortable and its something you already have.

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(SUNGLASSES: EARRINGS: black tassels, Amazon/ DRESS: Mustard swing dress; Forever 21/ VEST: Gray Oversized Vest; Forever 21/ JEGGINGS: black; Uniqlo/ SHOES: Gray Pointed Flats; Christiam Siriano for Payless/ PURSE: black; Kate Spade)

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~Rhea

Bump Style: 14 Weeks

Usually, this time around at 14 weeks, pregnant women don’t show any bump whatsoever but I found myself having to conceal my bump, not that I wasn’t proud of it. It’s just that I knew based on my past pregnancy that the probability of my bump being out there for everyone to see earlier than other women was great and I knew I’d be carrying that BIG bump for the next few months so I guess you can say I just wanted to enjoy a few more weeks dressing up as my regular self. I’m one of those pregnant women who you think are having twins but really their tummy is just excessively big and they show early on during the pregnancy.

14 weeks is a stage where people either start speculating that you’re pregnant or they would just rather think that you gained weight and have a beer belly so it’s safe to say that its that awkward-size stage. I found a pleated dress in my closet, a vintage piece from my grandmother and the pleats helped me conceal my abdominal area, so in photos I don’t look as pregnant as you would see me in real life but I started noticing my arms and thighs “filling up”. I was pretty good concealing that bump for awhile but the morning sickness this time around was unbearable unlike with my pregnancy with Cassie. Different smells would trigger my gag-reflex—Cooking Oil, Garlic, Onion, there were a bunch of things that I couldn’t stand and although I was pretty good holding off on the vomiting part I think not letting it out just made me feel worse inside.

So that pretty much summarizes where I am right now in my pregnancy, gaining weight and feeling puke-y 24/7. Yeah, they should really change what this thing is called coz it’s not just morning sickness…it’s the entire day for me but hey, who says you have to look crappy when you feel crappy right. That’s what dressing up is for. 😀

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(HAT: from Burlington/ DRESS: vintage; from my grandmother/ BAG: basket; thrifted from Goodwill/ SANDALS: white 2 straps, In Soles Philippines)

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Sorry, I know nothing on this post is “purchasable” just coz most of it are vintage pieces or thrifted other than the sandals but I hope it inspires you to dress up during your pregnancy even if you feel crappy half the time.

~Rhea

For the love of PUMPKINS.

Happy babies make happy mothers and this trip literally just warmed my heart seeing my baby excited, amused and amazed all at the same time. I’m pretty sure she didn’t understand what “pumpkins” were but she could see there were orange things in different shades and different sizes and there were tons of them. She literally squiggled her way out of my grasp to get down. And just like that she went from one pumpkin to another, “pumpkin-hopping” if you want to call it that.

Ann and I found this Groupon for a trip to the pumpkin patch, for regular adults with no kids you’d probably say it was alright but for parents especially those with toddlers, this was more than “alright”. Little kids went crazy all over this place called Halter Inc. Pumpkin Patch. They had that and the petting zoo, and some mazes, a bunch of kids activities, bits of snacks they were selling to the kids and they even had a spooky trail. Overall I think Ann and I were just happy we got to take Cassie and Olivia to their first visit to the pumpkin patch and of course take a gazillion photos of them. Thank God for #momfriends, I honestly believe mothers in general are in dire need of that friend who’s also a mother, someone you can talk to about your kid 24/7 and won’t think that you’re slightly obsessed with your child (which I probably am, haha). This will suck a bit of Marco and I end up moving to a different state which reminds me, a shout out to our husbands Marco and Charles. The were every bit of a stage dad as we were stage moms and they were participating in every photo and not complaining. Thank you for giving in to our every whims and fascinations concerning the kids and making them come to life. You are deeply appreciated.

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Cassie demanded that I put her down.

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Fall is definitely in the air in this pumpkin patch.

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Surrounded by pumpkins—big and small.

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She had fun drumming on the pumpkins

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Prepping for our “Mommy and Cassie” photo, she didn’t want to stay put.

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“Daddy and Cassie” picture, not exactly what she had in mind.

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The obligatory family photo, She just wanted us to put her down already.

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CASSIE’S PUMPKIN PATCH OOTD #1

(BEANIE: Pumpkin Beanie from Olivia; Gymboree/ ROMPER: Fall Bubble Romper; Handmaid Ends/ SOCKS: gray knee high socks; Amazon/ MOCCASINS: Camel moccasins; Minetonka)

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Decisions, decisions, decisions. Cassie and Olivia trying to figure out which pumpkins to take home.

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Stage Moms.

Olivia and Cassie twinning in their matching pumpkin beanie.

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These babies got hot and took off their beanies.

After the pumpkin patch, we decided to call it a day. We didn’t stay for the animal petting zoo and although we wanted to ride their train, the “conductor” was nowhere to be found so we left. We bought a medium sized pumpkin with the tickets we got from the Groupon deal and with that Daddy carved his first pumpkin ever.


A few days after, we visited a local pumpkin patch with my mom, Marco and some of my siblings just because Cassie had so much fun with the previous one. The St. Catherine of Sienna pumpkin patch had a minimal selection compared to Halter Inc just because I feel like all the good pumpkins were purchased already.

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Happy Harvest y’all! A fall photo with my little baby.

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Marco says she looks like a little pilgrim. I’d have to agree. Haha

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A little possessive are we? Haha. My mom bought her a little pumpkin to keep.

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Cassie in her pumpkin carriage.

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Mommy, Cassie and Daddy

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Tita Jelly, Grandmy and Tita Nikki—Cassie’s very own cheering squad.

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Falling in love with fall colors—Shades of Red, Rust, Mustard, Orange, Maroon.

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CASSIE’S PUMPKIN PATCH OOTD #2

(BONNET:Reversible fall bonnet; Lovely Snap Dragon/ ROMPER: Maroon Boho Romper; Reddies Craft/ SOCKS: mustard knee high socks; Amazon/ MOCCASINS: Camel moccasins; Minetonka)

~Rhea

Those “Ugly” Sneaker Wedges

Proud as it may sound, but I’ve never been insecure of my height, I guess I’ve been tiny long enough to even want to be taller that what I am today. Although I’d have to admit I was a bit relieved to have reached that point in my life where I can just choose to slip into some 5-inch heels to give me a “boost” when need be.

Of course, being with Marco gives me a lifetime excuse to wear heels until my legs are old and weak.

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The thought of  a lifetime of stilettos, wedges and all kinds of heels to lessen that 1-ruler gap between my height and Marco’s height was not as amusing as I thought—it just killed me.

 French Designer Isabel Marant then came up with the most ingenious design a few seasons back—the Sneaker Wedges also coined at one point as “Summer’s Ugliest Trend”.  Call it tacky, bulky,  hideous, Love it or Hate it, let’s face it—those things are damn comfy and they still give me those few inches that I need. It’s no surprise that shoe designers of all walks of life joined in the band wagon and came up with their own version (or knock offs whichever term you prefer) when it first came out and now that this trend is slowly dying down (or has it died yet?) I can bring my own pair out of the closet and put it to good use. I still think it’s great to keep for those casual laid -back/lazy days when you want to take a break from those pretty, sexy heels. Well, that’s just me anyway.

(BEANIE: knitted; Forever 21/ TOP: thrifted/ SKIRT: from Pauline and Marie; Image/ SHOES: Sneaker Wedges; Charlotte Russe/ PURSE: from Mom and Pop; Michael Kors/ BANGLE: Forever 21/ WATCH: New York and Company)

Dressing Up this “hideous” pair

Side View: Sneaker Wedges (I honestly think they’re not that bad)

Happy coz I’m comfy (and not as short, haha)

Purse of the Month: Michael Kors Large Weston Pebbled Shoulder Bag; a birthday gift from the ‘rents

Sorry Isabel Marant, you may consider this Charlotte Russe pair as knock-offs from yours and they’re probably not as comfortable as yours but there’s no way I’m spending $695 on sneaker wedges.

~Rhea