Dressing up Postpartum

…3 Weeks postpartum to be exact.

It’s always been hard for me to get out of the house after giving birth even with Cassie, my first one. Other than the recovery pains, I had to deal with the problem of deciding what to wear. I’d find my body in that awkward middle stage—still big  but not overly large and definitely not pregnant. I’m also not a big fan of belly bands (although I have one lying around somewhere), I know I probably should be using it to quicken the postpartum belly shrinking process but it takes me awhile to start wearing it so today I’ll mention a few go-to pieces of mine, postpartum.

Black/ Dark Colors 

Oldest trick in the book, dark colors are supposedly slimming. Black it is!

Casual Robes/ Kimono Tops

Loose flowy tops are a go-to staple postpartum because it serves two purpose(s)— one is to hide those post pregnancy bulges, two is to cover my baby while he’s breastfeeding.

Tank Tops

One of the easiest pieces to wear for nursing along side button down tops. I’m pretty sure  it will make it extra easy if you have those nursing tank tops although what I have on is a regular one and it still is pretty convenient for nursing since its an easy pull-down.

Maternity Jeans

I’m talking about the ones that don’t go all the way over your tummy.  At this point your maternity jeans should still fit you since its only been 3 weeks, in fact it should fit comfortably with just the postpartum bump.

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(HAT: Brown felt floppy hat; Icing/ TOP: Black tank top; Forever 21/ ROBE: Black Velvet Casual Robe; Charlotte Russe/ JEANS: Light washed maternity jeans; Gap/ FOOTWEAR: Gold metallic slip on mules; TJ Maxx/ EARRINGS: Floral dangling earrings; Kulturang Pilipino)

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How about y’all? Tell me some of your favorite postpartum go-to pieces, would love to hear about them.

~Rhea

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Local Vineyards, Quiet Birthdays

Local vineyards— who would have thought decent ones existed here in Texas especially since we’re known to have shady weather forecasts especially in our area, imagine experiencing all four seasons in one day. I know there are hundreds here in the US but for some reason when you say “US vineyards”, the first thing that comes to my mind is Napa Valley. I know its very small-town of me to think that way but its the truth.

And I’m not going to lie by saying that I did consider making a trip to Napa Valley, California for this year’s birthday trip (Haha, Marco didn’t even know) but as parents we do have to prioritize our children (especially since Cassie is celebrating her 1st birthday next month) so we came to a compromise by going to a vineyard that’s apparently a 45-minute drive from where we live. Wow, not bad at all.

The expectations weren’t high just because Texas isn’t really known for its wine but I’d have to say Marco and I were both impressed with Haak Winery and Vineyards. I’m glad Groupon brought back its $21 Haak Winery promo, wine tasting, vineyard tour and $20 deli credit for two people, it was definitely worth it and more.

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Driving to the vineyard was no trouble at all. From where we live, we literally just drove down highway 6 going to the Galveston area and turned right and just like that we reached our destination.

We called them in advance to ask if we could bring Cassie and they said they take pride in making their place family friendly and baby-friendly so we were able to take our stroller in and yes, they did have ramps.

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Once you walk in, you’ll find yourself in the deli/ souvenir area and at the very end of the room is the reception/ receiving desk.

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Vineyards wouldn’t be vineyards if they didn’t have any of these wine barrels-turned-to-deli-tables.

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This is what it looked like once you walked out of that room going towards the cellar and the actual vineyard.

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Daddy and Cassie posing right before our tour guide took us down to their cellar.

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Cream of the crop, all locked down in a special area.

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Spot the patron saint of the winery, they say you have to rub his tummy for good luck.

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Barrels and barrels of the good stuff.

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Starting them young…haha, don’t worry Cassie stuck to her milk when we did the wine tasting.

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These things have wine that can fill up hundreds if not thousands of wine bottles

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More wine machinery behind the scenes.

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The part that we were all waiting for—wine tasting.

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 We get to try 5 different ones including the Madeira that they’re known for.

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My mister insisted he take a picture of me.

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I thought he’d wear his usual shorts, shirt and sneakers but he tidied up, not bad Mr. Mendezona.

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Parenting 101. Wine tasting.

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Cassie tried to entertain herself. Awww good job baby!

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Family picture on our family date.

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We headed out again after the wine tasting to explore the vineyard by ourselves and take some pictures.

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A beautiful day for a visit to the vineyard, Thank you Lord for clear skies.

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I’m glad  that this little one is having so much fun as well.

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Stage mom in action.

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My little angel soaking up Mr. Sun.

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Daddy about to swing Cassie around.

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Mandatory vineyard solo 😀

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Who says you can’t take babies to a vineyard and have fun? I don’t know about y’all but this bunch did.

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Here’s my Cassie’s OOTD for our trip to the vineyard. She’s growing up too fast…

~Rhea

#BOHOLIVIA

I’ve been a sucker for themed parties for as long as I can remember and it amazes me how much fun I have with it even as an adult. You see me blog about someone else’s party and that’s just me appreciating the turn out of the celebration. To other people parties are just parties but it does take a lot of love, time, effort and creativity to pull off something like this especially here in the US where hiring party planners are a bit out of the budget.

So when you see me go all-out on a themed party, that’s just me showing my appreciation. It doesn’t faze me that people think I’m “feeling” the theme too much especially when it’s not my party. They took the time to prepare for it, at least take the time to look prepared and besides dressing up is soooo much fun. I hope Cassie grows up and sees it the way I do.

Here are some snippets of Olivia’s 1st Birthday Party. #Boholivia

And NO Cacay, it’s not #Bohol-ivia, its #Boho-livia. Haha.

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Our Bohemian flatlay before attending Olivia’s 1st Birthday. #Boholivia

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Olivia’s teepee set up greeting you as you enter the venue

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Her boho themed birthday giveaways. Feathers galore.

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Of feathers and teepees

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Cassie clearly enjoying the set up already

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Olivia’s cake smash area

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How cute, a cactus piñata!

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Olivia’s Dessert Table

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The cake—Keeping it boho chic and boho classy. 😀

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Happy 1st Birthday Olivia and Happy 1st year as parents Ann and Charles!

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Cassie and Daddy

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Boho-lovin Mommy and Cassie

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We couldn’t resist taking a picture even before the birthday girl arrived. Good job on the set up, geng!

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The Almacens and the Mendezonas


Here’s what Cassie wore:

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(ROMPER: floral; Sparrow Collective/ HEADBAND: boho feather headband; Pip and Tumbleweed/ SOCKS: gray knee high fox socks; Amazon/ MOCCASINS: pink fringe; Amazon)

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  And just coz it’s been awhile since I last did an OOTD. Here’s one just for the heck of it.

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Selfieeeee

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(DRESS: velvet rose pink dress, Rue 21/ SANDALS: cream colored high knee gladiators; Charlotte Russe/ HAT: maroon fedora; Icing/ SUNGLASSES: round frames/ SCARF: thrifted from the Philippines/ CHOKER: nude florals; thrifted from the Philippines)

~Rhea

I’m So Rumbly in My Tumbly

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My Bump Style at 32 weeks and 5 days

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Fighting Pregnancy Edema. Haha, the struggle is real!

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(DRESS: Garden Ridge/ CARDIGAN: thrifted/ SANDALS: Parisian/ SUNGLASSES: A/X Armani Exchange)

I admire how other pregnant women look so fabulous during their pregnancy, as it is I’m having trouble trying to look fab instead of drab because honestly I would rather  just lounge at home in my big comfortable night gown. I guess that’s a natural thing to feel lazy and sluggish during your pregnancy and the few times I’m out I literally feel like a “walking whale” (must be the hormones). But its little moments like these that I look forward to in my pregnancy, the moving and the kicking assures me that my little one is growing stronger everyday. We can’t wait to hold you Cassie! #spriki

~Rhea

It’s 50-50.

(DRESS: from Mami/ BAG: Gap from Mami/ SANDALS: Parisian/ EARRINGS: Aldo/ NECKLACE: Icing/ WATCH: New York and Co)

At 16 weeks and five days I seriously am noticing a lot of changes in my body and I know women differ in pregnancy changes but people have commented how I’m showing so early in the pregnancy. It has reached a point where I myself wonder how I’ve still managed to squeeze in some of my old clothes but I love my baby bump and I’m actually proud of it. Don’t expect me to be taking any pregnancy photos showing my belly though, I have nothing against it but I guess it’s just not my thing (haha, maybe in the second pregnancy) besides I think my lola (grandmother) would  kill me if she sees me exposing my belly that way.

As I near week 17, we’re getting more anxious to find out the baby’s gender. Marco and I would gladly take a boy or girl or even both (haha) because this pregnancy has been more than we could ever ask for. Now that (we think) we’re ready to be parents and we’ve spent some alone time as husband and wife, we asked God to bless us with a little one and he gave it to us in an instant, now we’re just continuously praying for a safe pregnancy for me and Spriki but for betting purposes Marco’s going for a boy (no surprise there) and I’m going for a girl. I actually know of people who are doing bets on our baby’s gender and I really don’t blame them because from Marco’s side there are 5 of them boys and 2 girls and on my side is the total opposite, there are 5 of us girls and 2 boys which makes the chances 50-50. I guess we’ll see in a week 😀

~Rhea