My Favorite New Accessory | A Unique Wood Watch by JORD

When I was single and this blog was self-indulgent, I used to post about my outfits, lookbook, #ootd—call it what you want but those posts were more for me to keep track of my current fashion (since fashion to me is a form of self-expression) and see how my style has evolved through the years. Of course, motherhood happened and I dealt with some sort of anxiety and post-partum issues with my body so I didn’t dress up for a while. You could say I was uninspired, I didn’t feel to good about myself and my body but after baby #2 I learned a whole lot about self-love and also learned the importance of practicing self- care. I’m proud to say that after 3+ years, I’m learning to love my #mombod and have embraced my battle scars (stretch marks, loose skin, weight gain, etc.) from both pregnancies.

Through those years my priorities have changed and my style has also evolved to reflect that. Nowadays I find myself preoccupied with house chores and play dates I no longer have time to think of what to wear and have resorted to a more timeless wardrobe , ‘ the basics‘ as others would call it but think of it this way—they’re reliable and you can never go wrong with it. In my journey of slowly ridding my life of clutter and creating a semi-capsule wardrobe I found myself investing in pieces that will last me a life time and that includes my JORD WATCH. I’ve been hearing a lot of good things about them for a while and so I was overly ecstatic when they reached out to me. I already got myself a Jord Fieldcrest in Maple prior to this collaboration and I wanted Marco to enjoy the same classic timepiece I had so I opted to get him the Jord Hyde in Kosso &Gray These beautifully designed wooden watches have a wide array of options for men and women (as you can see) and they also ship worldwide for FREE so go check them out.

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As parents, we cant help but wear different hats multiple times a day. Sometimes I’m a blogger, an influencer, a mom boss and I find a few minutes in those days where I can dress up and look decent like a normal human being. (Even do #OOTDs like the good old days)

But for the most part I am a mother and I try to tend to my kids 24/7 wether we’re at home or out traveling, busy making memories and treasuring the moments that they still enjoy being with me and Marco.

…And lastly, I am a wife. I know life can be overwhelming, for a SAHM watching the kids is a full time job, then you have emails, collaborations to tend to on the side plus house chores to top it all but it’s always important to take the time with your significant other. Even when we’re too busy to have date nights, we take a few minutes to just snuggle, talk about our day and laugh at the crazy things our kids did—these are the moments that count.

In celebration of these special moments in our life and just living life in general I have partnered with Jord watch to give one lucky winner $100 off their very own timepiece selection. Click the link below to join the giveaway:

JORD WATCH GIVEAWAY

Good luck guys!

~Rhea

 

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Dressing up Postpartum

…3 Weeks postpartum to be exact.

It’s always been hard for me to get out of the house after giving birth even with Cassie, my first one. Other than the recovery pains, I had to deal with the problem of deciding what to wear. I’d find my body in that awkward middle stage—still big  but not overly large and definitely not pregnant. I’m also not a big fan of belly bands (although I have one lying around somewhere), I know I probably should be using it to quicken the postpartum belly shrinking process but it takes me awhile to start wearing it so today I’ll mention a few go-to pieces of mine, postpartum.

Black/ Dark Colors 

Oldest trick in the book, dark colors are supposedly slimming. Black it is!

Casual Robes/ Kimono Tops

Loose flowy tops are a go-to staple postpartum because it serves two purpose(s)— one is to hide those post pregnancy bulges, two is to cover my baby while he’s breastfeeding.

Tank Tops

One of the easiest pieces to wear for nursing along side button down tops. I’m pretty sure  it will make it extra easy if you have those nursing tank tops although what I have on is a regular one and it still is pretty convenient for nursing since its an easy pull-down.

Maternity Jeans

I’m talking about the ones that don’t go all the way over your tummy.  At this point your maternity jeans should still fit you since its only been 3 weeks, in fact it should fit comfortably with just the postpartum bump.

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(HAT: Brown felt floppy hat; Icing/ TOP: Black tank top; Forever 21/ ROBE: Black Velvet Casual Robe; Charlotte Russe/ JEANS: Light washed maternity jeans; Gap/ FOOTWEAR: Gold metallic slip on mules; TJ Maxx/ EARRINGS: Floral dangling earrings; Kulturang Pilipino)

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How about y’all? Tell me some of your favorite postpartum go-to pieces, would love to hear about them.

~Rhea

Bump Style: 23 Weeks

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(HAT: gray, Forever 21/ DRESS: black maternity tunic, Old Navy/ VEST: white knitted sweater; H&M/ BOOTS: gray over the knee; Qupid/ PURSE: purple distressed clutch/ Miley Cyrus)

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~Rhea

Bump Style: 22 Weeks

I’ve finally accepted that I’ll never be one of those “skinny pregnant” ladies, you know those women who look like they just swallowed a watermelon whole but the rest of their body parts remain the same. With me, it’s always the arms and the legs that go first, and then my face gets chubbier and then my bump automatically looks like I’m carrying twins, I guess that’s just how it is for me every time I’m pregnant.

For this ensemble, I’m lucky enough to be wearing my regular clothes all in size Small, except for the leggings. There’s no way I’d fit into my old bottoms with that bump on the loose and I’m a bit hesitant to buy more maternity clothes but then again we are planning to have more than 2 kids so maybe it would be a good investment to purchase a few more especially jeans. But to those who think that’s an unnecessary expense then by all means the first step is to go through your closet and see what you already have. For fall, oversized sweaters, cardigans and maxi dresses can easily transition to your go-to maternity uniform, it’s comfortable and its something you already have.

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(SUNGLASSES: EARRINGS: black tassels, Amazon/ DRESS: Mustard swing dress; Forever 21/ VEST: Gray Oversized Vest; Forever 21/ JEGGINGS: black; Uniqlo/ SHOES: Gray Pointed Flats; Christiam Siriano for Payless/ PURSE: black; Kate Spade)

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~Rhea

Bump Style: 14 Weeks

Usually, this time around at 14 weeks, pregnant women don’t show any bump whatsoever but I found myself having to conceal my bump, not that I wasn’t proud of it. It’s just that I knew based on my past pregnancy that the probability of my bump being out there for everyone to see earlier than other women was great and I knew I’d be carrying that BIG bump for the next few months so I guess you can say I just wanted to enjoy a few more weeks dressing up as my regular self. I’m one of those pregnant women who you think are having twins but really their tummy is just excessively big and they show early on during the pregnancy.

14 weeks is a stage where people either start speculating that you’re pregnant or they would just rather think that you gained weight and have a beer belly so it’s safe to say that its that awkward-size stage. I found a pleated dress in my closet, a vintage piece from my grandmother and the pleats helped me conceal my abdominal area, so in photos I don’t look as pregnant as you would see me in real life but I started noticing my arms and thighs “filling up”. I was pretty good concealing that bump for awhile but the morning sickness this time around was unbearable unlike with my pregnancy with Cassie. Different smells would trigger my gag-reflex—Cooking Oil, Garlic, Onion, there were a bunch of things that I couldn’t stand and although I was pretty good holding off on the vomiting part I think not letting it out just made me feel worse inside.

So that pretty much summarizes where I am right now in my pregnancy, gaining weight and feeling puke-y 24/7. Yeah, they should really change what this thing is called coz it’s not just morning sickness…it’s the entire day for me but hey, who says you have to look crappy when you feel crappy right. That’s what dressing up is for. 😀

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(HAT: from Burlington/ DRESS: vintage; from my grandmother/ BAG: basket; thrifted from Goodwill/ SANDALS: white 2 straps, In Soles Philippines)

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Sorry, I know nothing on this post is “purchasable” just coz most of it are vintage pieces or thrifted other than the sandals but I hope it inspires you to dress up during your pregnancy even if you feel crappy half the time.

~Rhea